Afraid that changing means losing yourself? | The Choice Is Always Yours

You're afraid that if you change, you'll lose who you are.

"You're not giving up who you are. You're giving up who you're pretending to be."

From my book The Choice Is Always Yours.

When you stop being the person who's always fine or always available, what goes is an act you've been keeping up for other people. It feels like loss for a few weeks, because the act was familiar. Then it feels like relief.

Most people have a pattern like this running and don't know it's there. If you want to find yours, do the Atlas. It names the pattern running your life in a single sitting. It's free at codexofthearchitect.com