Am I lovable? The question that never ends | Beyond Attachment

You keep testing whether you're lovable, in one relationship after another.

"The right question was never 'Am I lovable?' The right question was 'What am I for?'"

From my book Beyond Attachment: When Relationships Become Optional.

A lot of people give decades to finding out whether they're lovable. The question has no end, because every answer depends on someone else staying. The question that gave me ground to stand on was about what I'm here to do.

Most people have a pattern like this running and don't know it's there. If you want to find yours, do the Atlas. It names the pattern running your life in a single sitting. It's free at codexofthearchitect.com