I don't know what I want anymore | The Space

Someone asks what you want, you say you don't mind, and you really mean it.

"The person who doesn't know what they want has sacrificed their desires one accommodation at a time, until the wanting was so atrophied they genuinely can't locate it."

From my book The Space: Where Choice Actually Lives.

Wanting is like a muscle. Each time you give way to avoid an argument, it gets a little weaker. Like a muscle, it comes back with use.

Most people have a pattern like this running and don't know it's there. If you want to find yours, do the Atlas. It names the pattern running your life in a single sitting. It's free at codexofthearchitect.com