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If they didn't need me, would they love me? #shorts

By , qualified therapist, author and philosophical mythologist. Twenty years in private practice. Enter the Atlas (free)

2026-10-22

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If they didn't need me, would they love me?

I think they're struggling again. If I don't help, who will? I can't fall apart. This is the conversation a saviour has in their head: learning early that being needed was the safest way to be loved.

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