Stopped looking for a partner? Nothing has closed | Beyond Attachment

You've stopped looking for a partner, and people assume you must have been hurt.

"The door isn't locked. I'm simply no longer standing at the window watching for someone to arrive."

From my book Beyond Attachment: When Relationships Become Optional.

For some people the search itself was the strain, because they'd arranged their whole life around the hope that someone would turn up. When you stop doing that, nothing closes. If a real connection comes, you can take it in.

Most people have a pattern like this running and don't know it's there. If you want to find yours, do the Atlas. It names the pattern running your life in a single sitting. It's free at codexofthearchitect.com