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What children learn when parents stay silent to keep the peace | Sacrifice
When you go silent to keep the peace, your children are watching.
"Children don't learn what their parents say. They absorb what their parents sacrifice."
From my book Sacrifice: The Pattern Beneath All Patterns.
Nobody sits a child down and teaches them to swallow their words. They watch the adults go silent at the table. A child takes in what you give up far more than what you tell them.
Most people have a pattern like this running and don't know it's there. If you want to find yours, do the Atlas. It names the pattern running your life in a single sitting. It's free at codexofthearchitect.com
This is one transmission. The Atlas takes your own pattern and shows you the structure underneath it, free.
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